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DAN RENZI

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  Dan Renzi is the Editor of the  Express, and can be reached at drenzi@expressgaynews.com.

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By DAN RENZI
JUL. 3, 2008
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elcome back, dear readers, to another week, another issue of the news.  I should welcome myself back, as I just returned from the far reaches of San Francisco, California, where I attended their Gay Pride celebration.  It could be argued that San Francisco is the center of the American gay universe; yes, New York is a more populous city, and Washington D.C. harbors all the political clout.  But it is San Francisco that generates the free thought, the excitement, the lifeblood of whatever it is the “gay community” is trying to become.

Attending a Gay Pride event in San Francisco is somewhat of a spiritual awakening.  Rare are the days when attending a gay event is still exciting, yet in San Francisco people are smiling, happy to be out, to be “out,” aware of how lucky they are that they can be exactly who they want to be.  Much of the city is taken over by the festival, and hundreds of thousands of people fill the streets, dancing and drinking and perhaps walking around bare-ass naked.  The police just look the other way when a penis or a vagina comes into view.  Is it legal?  Not so much. But this is San Francisco.  These things happen.

The night before the big parade, my friends and I met at a restaurant in Noe Valley, which is over the hill from The Castro.  One little hill, and it’s worlds away — filled with young couples pushing baby carriages, as they walk down the street to the land of family-life bliss.  Our restaurant was filled with tables of four, a straight couple and a gay couple sitting together, the straight couple grilling their gay friends about their newly-legalized marriage options.  It still seems to be a bit of a novelty:  people (gay and straight alike) ask their gay friends “Are you going to get married?” as casually as if they were just inquiring about their plans for the night.  

These are the questions reserved for nosy mothers at family functions, yet friends at a restaurant table think nothing of smiling at a gay couple and asking them to define the future of their relationship, as if it’s just party talk.  You can see the poor couple squirm, their faces going rigid as they think of something appropriate to say in the company of their significant other.   Imagine walking up to a straight couple out on a date and asking “So, you think the two of you have marriage in your future?”  You wouldn’t dare.

The inquisitions don’t come from a place of disrespect; it’s happiness for their friends, and excitement about things to come.  But it also signifies the reality of “gay marriage” being an actual marriage, and that being something very private, has yet to sink in.  


BACK IN SOUTH FLORIDA, things aren’t so rosy: as you may have noticed in our cover story, it seems “someone” has stolen several thousand dollars from the Stonewall Street Festival, right out of the cash registers.  Who took it?  A mysterious moustached man, pretending to be a volunteer? It’s a very odd situation, which the police were quick to admit they’ll never solve.

It’s not just the festival itself that suffers from the theft.  The Pride celebration operates as a non-profit, having been established to benefit the community; the proceeds from the Stonewall festival fund grants for community organizations, such as the Poverello Center, Tuesday’s Angels, and SunServe. When someone grabs a few thousand dollars out of the cash registers, those organizations lose funding that is part of their operating budgets.

We’ve also featured two stories of “firsts.”  Congress held it’s first-ever official hearing on transgender rights, a major milestone; and the Cuba almost hosted its first-ever gay pride celebration…until the government became skittish and shut it down.  Although Cuba has come a long way since the 1970’s when effeminate men were sent to work camps, to toughen them up and literally beat the gayness out of them.

News aside, we are tickled “pink” for the opportunity to splash the glorious Leslie Jordan across our pages.  Mr. Jordan is coming to the Parker Playhouse in Fort Lauderdale to perform his one-man show, “My Life on the Pink Carpet,” as well as give us a taste of his upcoming series on Logo, “Sordid Lives.”  Will he give us a taste of Beverly Leslie, his Emmy Award-winning performance on “Will & Grace”?  Fingers crossed.  Needless to say, it will be a brilliant show.  You should go.

Also, we updated our list of community events, paying extra attention to the sports listings.  Are you on a team that should be listed?  Let us know, editor@expressgaynews.com.


Thanks for reading.




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