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MAR. 25, 2005
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I wore ‘boys clothes’ in school, too
To the Editors:
Principal Sam Ward is wrong in forbidding the picture of lesbian student Kelli Davis from appearing in the Fleming Island High School yearbook. (“A Lesbian not so pretty in pink?” editorial, March 11.)

Ward appears prejudiced. Instead of empowering this student, he instead seems as if he is trying to humiliate her like the typical school bully.

I had a similar incident happen to me back in 1974 as a sixth grader at my public elementary school in Franklin Lakes, New Jersey — but with a different outcome.
The official girls’ gym uniform was an ugly blue one-piece jumper with snaps down the front. It looked like a baggy prison uniform.

On the first day of gym class, I went into my little brother’s bedroom closet and stole his gym clothes. It was a white tee shirt and navy blue shorts. Although it was a little tight, it was 10 times more comfortable than the anointed gym outfit.

I wore that outfit every gym class during my last year of elementary school.

No one copied me, but no one questioned me either. Certainly, no one disciplined me.

I thought I had gone completely unnoticed until a year later when a classmate told me her younger sister, along with all the other elementary school girls, were now donning the boys’ gym uniform.

In the beginning, I felt nervous appearing in my boy’s outfit. I also remember feeling empowered.

Unfortunately, Sam Ward robbed Kelli Davis of her positive life lesson.
GAYLE DURHAM
Miami Beach, Fla.


Chuck Prentiss is a local treasure
To the Editors:
I would like to commend local songwriter and entertainer, Chuck Prentiss (“Singing out loud,” local life, March 4.)
By raising awareness of gay themes in political contexts, Prentiss has furthered an important genre that needs to be heard.

His comedy song “Beaver,” as brilliantly performed by Miss Vicky Keller, was the smash hit at the annual SAGE concert at the Sunshine Cathedral.

Prentiss has received national exposure for his audacious work and I am grateful that the Express featured him prominently so that South Florida residents will be more aware of this local treasure.
MIKE ROSS
Fort Lauderdale


Key West is losing its gay appeal
To the Editors:
I would just like to comment on your recent article concerning the “de-gaying” of Key West. (“Gay guesthouses disappearing in Key West,” news, March 18.)
I just returned from Key West a week ago, and I definitely have to agree with you.

I don’t know how many times over the years I have visited the island. My first visit was probably 15 years ago. I had never heard of Key West, up to that point. It seemed a world away.

The next year we returned as well, and the next, with each year seeming better than the one before.

I have made most of the trips mentioned as gay destination points in your article: San Francisco, New York, P-Town. And I now visit friends frequently in Fort Lauderdale — they live in Wilton Manors.

Having stayed with my friends in Wilton Manors in November, then returning again for the week before I traveled to Key West, I doubt that I will be heading back to Key West again any time soon. It has certainly lost its appeal.

For the first time, I felt intimidated on this trip to Key West. It may have been due to the rowdy spring break week we chose to visit, but I have never in all previous visits ever felt that way before. I am very sorry to see this occur, but it has been heading this way for years.

We had talked to many locals and they are all saying the same things as your article. No gays can afford to live there anymore; they are all heading to Fort Lauderdale.

It saddened me to read your article, but I guess it is just the nature of times to come. As gays become more and more mainstream, so too will be the places where gays live and visit.

I guess that is what we have all been fighting for all of these years.
MIKE WESLOCK
Sylvan Lake, Michigan






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